A key symptom of depression is the inability to feel pleasure from things you used to enjoy. It’s not uncommon to hear people who are experiencing depression make statements such as “I don’t know what I like anymore,” or “Everything feels pointless.” There is even a clinical term for this: anhedonia. If you’re feeling this way, you’re not alone, and you’re not broken.
Depression affects the parts of the brain that are involved in motivation, reward, and focus, which is the prefrontal cortex. According to the National Institute of Mental Health, depression, also known as major depressive disorder, impacts how a person feels, thinks, and handles daily activities, such as sleeping, eating, or working. When your brain is working against you, even small tasks like brushing your teeth or making a phone call can feel overwhelming. If you’re wondering how to find your passion when you are depressed, the first step isn’t forcing yourself to feel inspired. It’s understanding what’s happening in your brain and starting with the smallest, most compassionate next step.

Reconnecting with Curiosity, Not Pressure
Research shows that behavioral activation, the practice of doing small, value-driven activities even when you don’t feel like it, can be just as effective as medication or therapy in treating depression. It is grounded in the well-established idea that depression can make us withdraw from the very activities that bring us joy and purpose. Over time, this avoidance can deepen feelings of sadness and disconnection. Through Behavioral Activation, we work to break that cycle by intentionally choosing small, meaningful actions that can help lift mood and restore a sense of engagement.
You don’t need to have a five-year plan or a sudden burst of inspiration to begin behavioral activation. Often, the best way to start is by paying attention to what stirs even the faintest spark of curiosity for you. For some people, that could mean:
- Reading a few pages of a book they used to enjoy
- Watching a documentary about something new and interesting
- Trying a new recipe or listening to a different genre of music
- Taking a short walk and observing how they feel afterward
When you’re able to approach life with genuine curiosity instead of pressure, you may have a better chance of rekindling your interest in your passions.
FAQs: How to Find Your Passion When You Are Depressed
Not necessarily. You don’t need to be “fully healed” to explore something that brings you joy or curiosity. In fact, engaging in small, meaningful actions, even when you feel low, can support your recovery. It’s okay if it doesn’t feel amazing right away. The goal isn’t to find instant fulfillment but to experiment with what might help you feel more connected or alive. Some people find it can be helpful to keep an “activity monitoring log” and lists of activities that help you feel more “up” or positive or more “down.” You can find examples on pages 9 and 10 of this PDF.
That’s more common than you might think. Many people don’t have a singular “passion,” and that’s okay. Passion often grows from doing, not necessarily from thinking or waiting. Starting small is okay. Follow your curiosity, try new things, and notice what feels tolerable or mildly enjoyable. With time, your interests are likely to develop into something more meaningful.
Depression affects brain chemistry, especially in areas responsible for energy, reward, and decision-making. That’s why even simple tasks can feel exhausting. Remember that you’re not lazy or broken. Motivation often follows action, not the other way around, so doing just one small thing, like getting out of bed or stepping outside, can shift your internal state.
Yes. Therapy is often about reconnecting you with who you are. Therapists can help you explore your values, strengths, and interests without pressure or judgment. They can support you through the hard parts of recovery, including the frustration of not feeling connected to anything. You don’t have to figure it out alone.
Depression often amplifies self-critical thoughts like “I should be trying harder” or “Other people handle this better.” These beliefs can make recovery even harder. This study highlights the significance of self-compassion as a protective factor that mitigates mental pain. Being kind to yourself is an important part of the healing process. Try reframing thoughts such as “I didn’t do enough today” to “I did what I could today.” Self-compassion practices can lower depression and anxiety symptoms and improve emotional resilience. Recognizing progress, rather than perfection, can help quiet self-criticism and rebuild self-trust.
Support systems can play an important role in finding your passion when you are depressed. Connection is one of the most powerful antidotes to depression. When you isolate yourself, your world shrinks; when you connect, your world expands. Support systems that include friends, family, peer groups, or a therapist can help you stay accountable, offer perspective, and remind you of your value. When you can share your experience, you can break the illusion that you’re alone in how you feel. And remember, you definitely don’t need to have everything figured out before reaching out. Even sending a short text like “Hey, I’ve been struggling a bit” can open a door to connection.
If you’re feeling this way, it just means you are human. Depression can make hope feel dangerous because it’s easier to expect nothing than to risk getting hurt again. However, avoiding hope also means avoiding growth or the chance to feel better. The key is to take small and manageable actions. Instead of setting big, abstract goals like “find my purpose,” try something more specific, such as “I’ll step outside for five minutes” or “I’ll text a friend this week.” Each small win builds evidence that change is possible.
Depression can make it hard to see what’s next, but small steps toward curiosity and connection can open the door to healing. Outpatient Los Angeles offers personalized support to help you rediscover what matters most, one step at a time. For support without judgment, contact us today.
Citations:
- https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/topics/depression
- https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/symptoms/25155-anhedonia
- https://medicine.umich.edu/sites/default/files/content/downloads/Behavioral-Activation-for-Depression.pdf
- https://medicine.umich.edu/sites/default/files/content/downloads/Behavioral-Activation-for-Depression.pdf
- https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC12038655/
- https://outpatientlosangeles.com/contact-us/






